Hey there.

So something's been on my mind lately.  Not nagging at me, but enough on my mind that I'm going to write about it here, because, frankly, my weekend was so uneventful that I don't have anything else to write about.

On Friday, Will wrote on his site that "Occasionally people think Todd and I are together, which we find very amusing."

And then, I went out in Austin, and ran into some friends of mine who, to be fair, are ALWAYS out in public together, and the conversation turned to the fact that EVERYBODY thinks they are a couple, when they are really just very good friends.  It bothered them a bit.  I don't know why, but it really did.

It's happened to me, too:  no matter how much we say differently, some people are totally CONVINCED that Mark and I are a couple.  We're not, and we never have been.  Why mess up a good friendship with sex?

For the record, Mark and I have never been a couple.  We have never dated.  When you see one of us out with a date, the other one of us will not be upset, we will be happy for each other.  That's how friendships work!

You would think that urban gay men would know better.  You would be wrong.

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As I said earlier, I had a nice weekend, and didn't do much... just slept a lot and got some things done around the house that I've been neglecting (you will be relieved to know that my desk DOES have wood under all that paper and shit.  Dust, too).

I DID get to go to a little houseparty on Sunday, and had a lot of fun... even got to sit in the hot tub a bit.  You can see pictures (of the party, not the hot tub) right here.

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